Infatuation- A fairytale
Ever had a strong feeling for someone that you could go to any extent if they even wave at you? Yes, I'm talking about infatuation which not only teenagers but also the adults go through. A feeling which we often mistakenly take it as true love. Well most of us already know what it means but there are many who have never heard of the word ever before in there life. So let's dive-in one of the most underrated topics today.
- By, Swarnashikha Paul
You are in the age group of 15 to 18 and you find yourself in a different world. You start liking a person whom you admire 24*7. For you he/she is so handsome good looking Or the most beautiful one. He or she is so perfect in every sense and the most important thing is you can't imagine a life without that person.
The line goes like
A moment without you is unimaginable
And the entire life??
It's impossible...
You bunk tution classes, lose interest in studying, talk to each other in phone . And when your parents find this out and seize your phone you both start communication via letters.... Yes this still exists. I have seen many communicating through letters. And they call it love. Oh sorry, True love.
Sorry to interrupt in the middle of your true love story but this isn't love. It's infatuation - an intense but Short lived passion or admiration for someone.
Google it you will find the same meaning.
The feeling which you think is love is just a state of being carried away by an unreasoned passion for the opposite gender, for whom you develop a strong romantic feeling.
Being a teenager you urge for growing up soon. Some go so deep in their true love that they start making promises for future. Bro, first start drinking tea then decide your wedding dress.
Honestly, infatuation may also develop into a mature love. Infatuation is described as the first stage of a relationship.
Love is a warm attachment, enthusiasm, devotion to another person.
Infatuation is when you first see someone and you feel for that person. But love on the other hand, is knowing the imperfections of someone and trying to correct them by staying with them.
Love is a reality that takes time. So before coming into a relationship make sure you both are matured enough to face all the obstacles, make time for everything and most important is to make a career on your own. Getting into a relationship is easy but taking it to marraige is really difficult. So take time know each other and don't let your infatuation become your weakness.
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